Grappling with Grief

Finding My Purpose in My Deepest Pain

By Tony Lynch   I’m Tony lynch, host of the Grief…Let’s Talk About It podcast and founder of Memories of Us Ltd., which is a global grief network that offers grief support for men. My journey started on Halloween of 2015 when my son overdosed due to some miscalculations by his pharmacist when she mixed […]

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Caring Cardinals Appear When Angels Are Near

By Leesah Marie Noon   In early 2012, I experienced a rather lengthy period of grieving after the sudden and tragic loss of a dear friend. Attempting to comfort his family, I drew his portrait as a gift, but their grief prevented them from displaying it. I was silently determined to discover a new way […]

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Life Must Go On: Cynthia Spillman

By Cynthia Spillman   The day that totally tore my life to shreds started out like any other day.  It was November 20, 1987, and I was taking my five-year-old son Anthony and my seven-year-old daughter Samantha to school. The children were laughing in the back of the car. I slowed down to turn right […]

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My Sepsis Story: Kim Smith

By Kim Smith   I’m one very lucky lady to have survived sepsis, but I became a quadruple amputee because of it and I’ve been left with post-sepsis syndrome which causes daily struggles too. In November 2017, I was on holiday in Spain and started getting pain in my left side kidney area. I suspected […]

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Widowed at 24

By Widowed at 24   I was 24 years old when I was widowed; my husband of two years and lifelong best friend was only 29 when he departed. It seemed impossible that someone as full of life as him, with his contagious laugh and thirst for adventure, could be gone, almost as soon as […]

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Stepping Stones: Stephanie Dawson

By Stephanie Dawson   When I think about grief, I think of death right away, as most of us do, then it goes right into other types of loss; divorce, career, health, home, never becoming a desired result (parent, professional athlete, writer, traveler, etc). All types of loss are valid, painful, and need love and […]

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Dylan’s Army: Sarah Day

By Sarah Day   My name is Sarah Day and the best thing that has ever happened to me was becoming a mum to my four children. The worst thing that has happened to me was losing one of them. I’m sharing my feelings about bereavement in my life in the hope it may help […]

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Chapter 2: Nicky Wake

By Nicky Wake   I lost my soulmate and husband Andy Wake in March 2020. He was the John to my Yoko, a beautiful, wonderful gentle soul and the world is a much poorer place now that Andy isn’t here. I met Andy during the Commonwealth Games in Manchester in 2002. We actually met online […]

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Widowed Tango Foxtrot

By YEG Widow   Grief is an individual journey, defined by the traveller carving the path. No one chooses to be on this new road, but what each of us can choose is how we walk it, dance it, and move forward on it. My widowhood journey began on August 10, 2021. My husband passed […]

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The Widow Squad: Melissa Pierce

By Melissa Pierce   I didn’t think I could do this alone… raising and parenting two really energetic and rambunctious boys. And I didn’t have to, I had my husband Dave. We were a really good team, great partners and parents…together. We loved each other and this family we created — the four of us… […]

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